The Act Of Forgiving

Forgive and Forget

Something very easy to say yet hard to do. So why does this 3 words struck into my mind ? Well, I was introduced to it just recently from the lamest game on the internet, Maple Story. There's this small guild of mine which have the motto "4give and 4get". Initially I tot it was some kinda joke because everyone knows, it's very rare for ppl to be able to forgive and forget.

I still remember the Jeffery who couldn't forget grudge and also vengeance towards people. I believe that many of you know that I'm easily angered during 2004,2005,2006 or perhaps a little on 2007. I find it so hard to forgive someone who've did something that I didn't like. I was wondering why this happens. I realised that the one whom I cannot forgive is not others but myself. I can't forgive myself to be so carefree towards things and not taking actions although I know that I shud be taking actions.

This made me ponder a lot and I took some actions to ask for forgiveness from others. Sadly, I believe things are way too late to be changed. I can only hope that things get better as time passes.


Everybody does mistakes
Some realises it very fast and they change
Some realises it but they doesn't change
BUT 
Many realised it but it's too late to do anything
Many don't realise it thus they don't change

Therefore, the ones who are unhappy with someone, do speak out as through arguements comes peace and deeper understanding between each other

Luk 17:3  Take heed to yourselves. If thy brother trespass against thee, rebuke him and if he repent, forgive him.

In conclusion
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~Forgive and forget~
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Posted on 10:10 PM by Jefferychan and filed under | 1 Comments »

1 comments:

kenghuei said... @ April 12, 2009 at 5:01 AM

I have no problems in forgiving ppl usually..after some time..think it's one of my strengths ba :P but...i still won't forget..lol.

Forgive but not forget, so tat we'll learn from it :) I heard someone preach this b4.. but do u think it's like insincerely forgiving then?